Remember when you were a kid and all you wanted to do was play games? Remember the fun and pleasure that playing games gave you and how it brought you closer to your friends? Sex games also have a great effect in bringing a couple closer together, not just in their sex life but in their relationship as well.
While there are some sex games available online or in an adult store which you can purchase, many of the best sex games can be quite easy to organise yourself and needn’t require much financial expense.
Three great low cost options for creating a sex game for a couple are:
One of you writes down on piece of paper the brief details of a sexual fantasy or erotic situation. Then that person has to act out what is written and the other person has to try to guess what it is. When they have guessed correctly, swap turns.
Write a few different sexual activities on separate pieces of paper. Then take turns drawing them out of a hat – and acting them out!
When sitting in a restaurant or bar, observe some of the other people around you. Talk together about what you can imagine doing to or with that person (it may even be another couple). Really build up your fantasy (although don’t talk too loudly!).
Another thing couples should remember about sex games is that they can make a great addition to sexual foreplay. Especially for women, the longer the foreplay the better. By introducing one or more games you get the sexual fires starting to smolder. Certainly try to be playful and creative as much as possible in your lovemaking. As we said, being playful was something we all were as children and it is a shame that it is something which adults have lost to a large degree. Sex doesn’t always need to be serious! Add a few games to your sex life and it will do a lot of good for your relationship in general.
If you’re short for ideas for sex games for couples there are a number of websites offering ideas. There are even some games you can purchase online or at an adult store. However, in general the best games, just like when we were children, are often the ones you invent yourself. It doesn’t take too much imagination to come up with some great games. Have fun!